( Is it easier to do over text? Yeah, probably. Breaking up with people was easier over text, too. It stands to reason he should probably do the exact opposite of what he'd do for ghosting somebody if it's a relationship he's trying to build.
But yeah, it's a little bit more than he has in him to suggest it or bring attention to it. This already feels like a lot, and he couldn't say for sure if he'd struggle more or less that way. At least he gets to read and re-read and re-re-read what he's trying to say before he sends it. You can't delete words in person. )
Honestly man, most of the time I don't even know what I need, and if I do I don't know how to tell you. I don't even know if what I think I need is what I actually need or it's just what feels the easiest. I'm sorry you're on the other side of it, it's not fair, and I know. That's probably part of why I end up thinking myself in circles trying to get it right.
I don't really give a shit about what I need, and if I'm not worried about it you definitely shouldn't be worried about giving it to me. What I do give a shit about is not fucking up. Maybe what I need is just for you to promise to tell me if I ever start doing that, so I can use that to stop quadruple-guessing myself.
And you're really, really good at this as far as I'm concerned.
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But yeah, it's a little bit more than he has in him to suggest it or bring attention to it. This already feels like a lot, and he couldn't say for sure if he'd struggle more or less that way. At least he gets to read and re-read and re-re-read what he's trying to say before he sends it. You can't delete words in person. )
Honestly man, most of the time I don't even know what I need, and if I do I don't know how to tell you. I don't even know if what I think I need is what I actually need or it's just what feels the easiest. I'm sorry you're on the other side of it, it's not fair, and I know. That's probably part of why I end up thinking myself in circles trying to get it right.
I don't really give a shit about what I need, and if I'm not worried about it you definitely shouldn't be worried about giving it to me. What I do give a shit about is not fucking up. Maybe what I need is just for you to promise to tell me if I ever start doing that, so I can use that to stop quadruple-guessing myself.
And you're really, really good at this as far as I'm concerned.
What do YOU need?