( I don't know is a pretty valid answer. Relationships are complicated, platonic or otherwise. People are complicated, and it's not a mystery to either of them by now that he can relate to the sentiment.

He stops when Nate does, apparently his trend for the night. Falling into step, letting him dictate the pace. Partly because as far as Ian's concerned, he's already put himself plenty out there by asking. By planning it. The last thing he plans to do is push the momentum here. )

It's okay, no, I get it.

( Earnestly, no offense taken. )

I think it freaks most people out in general, let alone... I mean, you've been through a lot of shit. But--

( His hands come up placatingly. )

I'm not saying now, but just so you know, whenever you wanna... talk about any of it, I'm not gonna judge you. I like who you are right now.